Dear Sarah Everard, it wasn’t your fault

*TRIGGER WARNING*: sexual assault/abuse, rape, kidnapping, violence/murder Hello lovely friends, I hope you are managing to stay well at this awfully messy time. I’d get comfy and grab a cuppa for this one, because it ended up being a long but very important post. I was conflicted about writing this post because I never thought that I could give Sarah Everard the justice she deserves, … Continue reading Dear Sarah Everard, it wasn’t your fault

An honest chat about everyday racism

My self-esteem was so heavily affected by the prospect of discrimination that I had no choice but to find other ways to boost it. I grew up in a primarily White town, where people of my ethnicity are very few and far between. Despite speaking Tamil as my first language, I quickly grew into only communicating in English, even with my parents. As I grew … Continue reading An honest chat about everyday racism

Submitting to sex under pressure is not consent. It is acquiescence.

*TRIGGER WARNING* This post discusses sexual harassment, racism and rape, with links & screenshots which could be triggering. If this is something which might upset you, I would advise you to stop reading now. This was an incredibly difficult post to write (and I have been trying to do so for a few months now) and it addresses some horrifying content. The reading and research … Continue reading Submitting to sex under pressure is not consent. It is acquiescence.